There Is No One To Blame
Friday, November 23rd 2018
Dear Holy Honored One – It is time to talk about BLAME. Blaming is something you tend to do when things don’t go your way, or someone in your life acts out in a way that has a negative impact on you. We are here to tell you that there is no one to BLAME.
In writing your contracts in Spirit, one of the most important aspects you cover is WHO will be in your life. Yes, you chose the members of your family, your parents and siblings and grandparents…your friend potentials and so on. You choose them for very specific reasons.
You have the opportunity to choose souls in your incarnation to act in a certain way for you to push against or accept. You may have to rebel against your unyielding parents, or accept a sibling who doesn’t love you the way you would have hoped. You are always choosing how to respond and each time you choose, you grow!
So if your parents or siblings are a source of exasperation for you…don’t blame them…you ASKED THEM to behave that way from the Other Side and they are fulfilling their end of the contract. Many of you chose to endure something in your lives so that you will learn to make choices that honor yourself. It may take years to learn a particular lesson and you may become very annoyed and irritated by the contrast in behavior from a relative to your own.
The important things to remember are:
You signed a contract with them and asked them to participate in your incarnation with you in this exact way
You wanted your relatives to act the way they do to promote a certain response from you
You wanted to grow and experience making your own choices
Your response is everything! Your choices are everything!
So in closing, there is NO ONE to blame when you have an annoying or irritatingly hurtful parent or sibling…they are playing their role perfectly, just as you asked them to. This may be shocking to you if you are hearing it for the first time. Rest assured that you love them adoringly on the Other Side and have glorious relationships with them in Heaven. You could even silently bless them and thank them for playing their parts so well. Now that was a surprise, wasn’t it!?
- Channeled from Archangel Michael and
The Divine Coterie through Mandy Arwén